Abundance is for all of us and energetically it is happening in my life and in your life simultaneously. Money, opportunities, smiles, peace of heart, ideas, connections and everything else we can wish for and dream of. Abundance in all senses. It is up to each of us to tune in to this delicious vibration… Read more
Open to Surprises
Last weekend I participated, for the first time, in a family constellation. It was a group of 12 people and lasted the whole weekend. If you have experienced, know or work with the method, you know that it can be a very rich and profound experience. And it was! I’ve had many insights, and I’m… Read more
Are You Trying To Fit In?
Never Fit In! Face it. You’ll never fit in. And that’s a wonderful thing. And there’s a very good reason why you’ll never fit in. There’s no such thing as “fitting in.” You see, objects fit in. Things fit in. Lumps of concrete fit in holes. Blocks of wood fit in containers. Humans cannot fit… Read more
The Meaning of Things
I picked up my teenage son at school the other day and, as he got in the car, he took a deep breath. I asked if everything was fine and he said everything was just fine. After I insisted and asked again, this was his answer: “You know, not everything has a meaning.” He simply… Read more
Love, Freedom and Courage
This past weekend I had the grateful opportunity for the first time to hold a wedding ceremony. It was the celebration of the union of two people I love. Little did I know that I was saying “yes” to a grand opportunity to expand my heart and the ideas I had about love. Over the… Read more
My walk to the shop was different today.
I took the route beside the school, a path with a high fence on both sides and I realized I was not moving but the fences were moving past me. Taking care of themselves they went proudly on by. A little girl approaches running ahead of her parents and her baby brother in a pram.… Read more
You can’t help being open to others!
I just started a course in Transactional Analysis, and we were discussing the qualities we would like to see in a psychotherapist. One person said they wanted a therapist to “get them.” Is wanting a therapist, a friend, or partner to “get you,” which means to really see and understand you, a reasonable request? Is… Read more
You Can’t Help Being Open For Others!
I just started a course in Transactional Analysis, and we were discussing the qualities we would like to see in a psychotherapist. One person said they wanted a therapist to “get them.” Is wanting a therapist, a friend, or partner to “get you,” which means to really see and understand you, a reasonable request? Is… Read more
Emotional Roller Coaster
Lately I’ve been feeling like I’m riding this big roller coaster of feelings. It feels as if an inner door had opened and suddenly all feelings began to manifest in a whirlwind. It was even difficult to honestly answer people’s question about how I was doing. Emotionally, there was a lot of movement within me,… Read more
Empathy Please!
When someone is in emotional pain, empathy is sometimes the only solution. Have you ever tried to get your point across when the other person is hurting, and they can’t hear you? You feel increasingly frustrated and irritated. This is especially true when you are angry about their behaviour and you believe you are the… Read more