What do you answer when someone asks you who you are? Try now, quietly, to answer that question to yourself. When I try to define myself, I have a feeling of confinement. The more adjectives, definitions, labels, characteristics, functions and roles I add to what I believe to be my personality, the less I become,… Read more
About separation and the way back
This is the first time I write about my separation. For me it is clear that the Miracle Choice Game played a big role in it and was my companion throughout this process! I was able to look at all that was happening, review my choices daily, and become more and more conscious of them.… Read more
What do you do with your anger?
Who has never felt angry? How many times have we tried to put it down or, instead, let it out aggressively, verbally or physically? In this way, we are identifying with it, strengthening it (even when we try to ignore it), and letting that emotion be the master of the situation. Well, this week I… Read more
Relationship lessons are gifts
My son Yuri has just celebrated a year of coming out. I had a shock back then. Not so much that he is gay, but that until that point, I hadn’t realised that my love for him was conditional. I had the image of him in a nuclear family of his own, that may have… Read more
The old well-known comfort zone
Do you sometimes have the feeling that you are living the same thing every day? Do you have the feeling that today is just a repetition of yesterday? If this is happening, do you believe that you are responsible for it? You may not realize it, but you’re likely to spend most of your days… Read more
Why be more honest?
Radical honesty continues to inspire me and intrigues me. Perhaps practicing radical honesty leads us to realize that we are feeding lies that end up hiding our greatest truth: that we are love and that we have nothing to hide. As an invitation to reflection, I share below a sequence of questions on the subject… Read more
Is there something wrong with this moment?
It’s tempting to think that life will be better in the future! I’ve just stopped a job that I’ve done for years and now I’ll have more time to do what I feel guided to do with my days and weeks. It’s tempting to think I’ll be happier in the future. And yet I remember… Read more
Are You a Black Sheep?
I find it funny when I hear people say they consider themselves the black sheep of the family. Have you ever wondered what lies behind this thought? The image that comes to my mind is that of a flock of white, fluffy, quiet sheep. In the midst of them, a black sheep, restless, who doesn’t… Read more
Recognizing the divine self in my body
In his painting The Last Supper, Leonardo da Vinci, who was a splendid artist, scientist, inventor, musician and Renaissance architect, emphasizes Jesus at the center of the painting, playing several roles, both within the spatial structure of painting and its intrinsic message. At that moment, Jesus had just told all his disciples that one of… Read more
The Big Idea
Many of my ideas, dreams and insights remain in my mind waiting for the “right time” to be expressed. However, very often this “right time” never comes. “One day I’ll share it”, “I’ll suggest it at the right moment”, “I’ll put it into practice when I have the chance”, “I’ll think about it later”. I… Read more